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If a man....

Posted at 09:35 PM on May 10, 2009

  • If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
  • If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
  • Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
  • Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
  • Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better.
  • Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
  • Ifa relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deservethen heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat afriend.
  • Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
  • Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad atyourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
  • The only person you can control in a relationship is you.Avoidmen who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. Hedidn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you anydifferently?
  • Always have your own set of friends separate from his.Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
  • If something bothers you, speak up.
  • Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
  • You cannot change a man's behavior.
  • Change comes from within.
  • Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if hehas more education or in a better job.
  • Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
  • Never let a man define who you are.
  • Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
  • A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs.
  • You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.
  • You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cuteabout baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a newrelationship Y
  • ou should never look for someone to COMPLETEyou...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...
  • look forsomeone complimentary...not supplementary.
  • Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right (agreed!).Make him miss you sometimes...
  • when a man always know where you are, andyour always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
  • Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
  • Keep him in your radar but get to know others.Share this with other ladies..... You'll make someone SMILE, anotherRETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARE. They say it takes aminute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day tolove them and an entire lifetime to forget them.
  • ** BY THE WAY, THIS WAS WRITTEN BY A MAN **

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